kie says: kicking off from the topic of attraction and its role in marriage, attraction is an essential part in relationships. keeping the attraction within marriage is important to keep the fire alive. you don't have to stop the attraction, just to say you have become mature in the relationship. no, these are two different things. attraction (between your partner and you) is...

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kie says: I don't. Period.  t says: I don't too. Exclamation point.  kie says: For me, love does not occur the moment you see this beautiful creature with a charming smile. Love does not happen the moment your eyes meet after you both slip on the floor and you fall (literally) on each other. Nor does it happen when bump into him while...

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T says:  I love my wife for what she does for me. I love the way she takes care of me when I'm sick, how she reminds me of important tasks and schedules, how she packs my bags for travel, or when she cooks me amazing meals or basically doing everything for me while I'm playing my guitar. That's what you call passive...

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T says: From the title itself, there is work to be done in making the relationship work. There are a lot of books and articles out there stating that men are this and that while women are that and this. And the typical advise is to settle and understand each other. However, in the real world, you got to meet half-way.  Kie says:...

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kie says: love letter writing may have lost its medal of honor because of technology. couples nowadays spend more time with digital notes, from personal messages in social media, a quick snap chat, emails, electronic cards, and SMS. gone were the days of mr. postman. only a few bookstores in the country sell postcards or greeting cards. and it's now hard to look...

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kie says: There will be times when the relationship seems stagnating, or dry, everything is the usual, nothing new. Your partner might be feeling the same too, and is also waiting for you to make your superhero(ine) moves. This is the time when you should be doing something. Be the ignition to keep the flame burning. He is sure to return the effort...

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kie says: being in a relationship for 7 years does not qualify me to be a relationship guru nor a marriage counselor. It simply means that we did a lot of things that worked (for us, that is). t says: Who says your first can't be your last? Well, we have been successful in achieving that. And do you know what? There is a...

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